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REGAINING CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE, ONE MINUTE AT A TIME

REGAINING CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE, ONE MINUTE AT A TIME

by Julie Blais Comeau on June 23, 2026
Taking control of your life with minutes, Reprendre le contrôle de sa vie une minute à la fois Julie Blais Comeau Mitsou Magazine

Tick-tock, tick-tock… The list of “we shoulds” stretches like a broken necklace you never seem to have time to fix. Tasks pile up, thoughts scatter… and then the title of this article catches your attention.

Out of curiosity, and with a bit of hope, you give it a few of your precious minutes to regain a little control. Because too often, you feel like you don’t have any spare minutes left. Or at least, that’s what you believe.

Time is not the problem. Nobody manages it. It cannot be stored, recovered, or bought. It moves forward, identical for everyone. The prime minister, the pope, your boss, your parents, your children, and you all have exactly the same minutes.

What changes everything is not the minutes themselves. It is priorities.

Shaped by your values, they determine what you do with your time: answer an email, mop the floor, update a CV, or applaud your child’s end-of-year performance.

Urgencies, however, do not ask for permission.

So one question remains: how do you get back on track?

Here are simple, concrete actions to help you move forward, lighten your load, and realign yourself—in 5, 15, 30, and 60 minutes, one day at a time, at home, at work… and in those waiting moments that fill modern life without us noticing: at the doctor’s office, the dentist, the airport, or between appointments.

FOUR SIMPLE ACTIONS TO REGAIN CONTROL

This is not about becoming more efficient. It is about becoming intentional again.

1. Block what matters
What is written down is no longer forgotten. Important appointments do not survive in your head—they live in your calendar.

2. Choose your daily top 3
Each evening, before putting on your Super Mom/Woman/Partner cape, take 2 to 5 minutes. Write down three priorities for tomorrow. No more. Everything else becomes noise.

3. When everything interrupts… sort
Is it important right now? How long will it take? What happens if I postpone it? Then adjust. Delegate. Eliminate. Or consciously choose not to do it. Regaining control also means letting go.

4. Celebrate
A walk, a hot coffee, a well-deserved pause. The brain learns through reward, not pressure.

THE POWER OF MINUTES

Too often, you feel exhausted and as if nothing has been checked off your master to-do list. And yet, between obligations, there is time—gaps, micro-moments of life absorbed by screens.

What if you used them differently?

AT HOME

There are days when your home feels like a scene after the final act: everything is there, but nothing is in its place. Yet this space that reflects you can become a place of grounding and clarity—just a few minutes at a time.

Under 5 minutes – small high-impact actions

  • Prepare a package for return
  • Empty or start the dishwasher
  • Clear a visible surface (entryway, counter, table)
  • Clean the bathroom vent
  • Replace pads under a chair or furniture
  • Take a photo of an item to sell or donate and post it immediately

Under 15 minutes – bring useful order

  • Clean the bathroom
  • Reset the living room
  • Fold a small load of laundry
  • Sort a “junk drawer”
  • Go through toys with children using a timer
  • Clean the barbecue grill
  • Pull weeds in a garden bed

Under 30 minutes – reclaim space

  • Organize the refrigerator
  • Declutter spices and condiments
  • Prepare a donation box or bag
  • Reorganize your home office flow

Under 1 hour – realign home and life

  • Declutter a room
  • Sort a wardrobe
  • Create a simple filing system for important documents with your partner

AT WORK

Professionalism is not only shown in big meetings, but in the consistency of small actions.

Under 5 minutes

  • Update LinkedIn profile
  • Write a recommendation
  • Reply to an important email
  • Prepare talking points for a meeting
  • Send a delayed follow-up
  • Update a task status
  • Thank a colleague or client

Under 15 minutes

  • Send a clear follow-up
  • Organize your inbox
  • Review a document before a meeting

Under 30 minutes

  • Prepare a meeting
  • Update a client file
  • Structure weekly priorities
  • Get ahead on a deliverable

Under 1 hour

  • Advance an important project
  • Structure an offer or idea
  • Plan your week intentionally

IN WAITING MOMENTS

These are the moments no one plans for. We often fill them on autopilot with scrolling or distraction. But they can become allies.

Under 5 minutes

  • Send a message of appreciation
  • Delete unnecessary photos
  • Update contacts
  • Write a review or recommendation

Under 15 minutes

  • Organize photo albums
  • Listen to a short podcast
  • Send thoughtful messages
  • Plan or buy gifts online
  • Delete unused apps or subscriptions

Under 30 minutes

  • Sort photo library
  • Update contacts and notes
  • Read a saved article

Under 60 minutes

  • Fully reorganize photo library
  • Clean contacts and apps
  • Listen to a long podcast or talk

FOR YOURSELF: RESET MOMENTS

Because you cannot be everywhere without losing yourself a little.

Under 5 minutes

  • Drink water mindfully
  • Breathe without a screen
  • Write three gratitudes

Under 15 minutes

  • Walk without your phone
  • Stretch gently
  • Take a break without multitasking

Under 30 minutes

  • Read a few pages
  • Take a slow bath or shower
  • Write freely without purpose

Under 60 minutes

  • Walk without destination
  • Create (write, draw, cook)
  • Clarify intentions on paper

AND IN THE END…

The real question is not: do I have time?
But rather: what can I do with the small amount of time I already have?

Because life is not transformed only through big decisions. It is transformed in the two minutes we choose not to let slip away. And sometimes… that is exactly enough to feel better.

Published and translated from Mitsou Magazine June 19, 2026 (c) Julie Blais Comeau

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